Those sound like much more responsible reasons to end a relationship than any of mine. You might give yourself some credit.

[ Ilias mostly considered none of those things and then got upset when they turned out to be important. So, bravo. ]

I have not been so careful; perhaps that is a more useful comparison. I was once, but— it is easy to forget, yes? In the moment, that one ought not always pursue a deeper connection, as you put it. But once such bonds exist, and there is danger in their inevitable breaking — I suppose I only wonder if it is cowardice or sense, to sever them sooner.